turn ons – mom DO NOT read this post

I had a super fun skype chat with my best bud Craig today. We started chatting about turn ons, laughing and one upping each other. Then I called a few friends and got some other turn ons that Craig and I forgot about. So here they are in noooooooo particular order:

Let’s start off with an all time crowd pleaser - Biting/hickies – giving and receiving and all variartion; playful little nips or the bites that have the intention of causing an (almost) bearable amount of pain. Anywhere is fine, but neck bites get bonus points.

Spanks – light taps or some more sever in the heat of the moment wallops that could just leave a permanent hand print. bring it, I say. Alternately, a good ass grab works as well or in tandem.

Ear play (tonguing  and heavy breathing) – this is a personal fav but I was shocked to find out that not everyone loves it. I know it can be ticklish and cause goosebumps and arm hair raises, but isn’t that the best part?!?

Pull away kisses - these are those amazing kisses that happen when you’re kissing but then pull away and sub in lots of breathy gasps, then come in again. Add ons: lip biting, a little sly tongue (obviously) or my personal fav – sliding the tip of your thumb in their mouth while kissing.

damn.

Throw downs -I forgot about these till my friend texted me these exact words “rough throw downs are always amazing - like toss me round a little.”

priceless. I LOVE my friends.

Other forms of somewhat aggressive (but of course consensual) play is always welcome. Ie: ‘wrist hold downs‘ – either both writs in one hand over the head or the two handed version where the wrists pinned at shoulder height (wow, did I leave my oven on or is it getting hot in here…)

Getting flipped - again, on the more assertive side of things (basically any assertive actions are a turn on) but getting flipped over onto your tummy is hot – add in some licks and kisses on the sides of the hips and small of the back that slowly lead up to the neck… holy dyna that’s 5 alarm hotness right there!

Obviously there are so many more that go beyond turn ons and are full out sex ons but this is a pretty PG blog so I might just post an uncut version under the password protected posts! ha! In the meantime, let’s do a poll…

AMENDMENT [Sec. 1 -7a]

Hair Pulling – How I forgot about hair pulling is just beyond me.  I’m embarrassed. Thanks to Darren’s comment for the save. Hair pulling is maybe one of the hottest things ever – during a passionate kiss and of course in puppy pose. Get in there and grab a hand full of locks. It’s fantastic and essential.